build: Use wayland driver and add weston helper

Fix oniro build and use coap3-openssl on debian to align OE

Can be tested locally using:

make weston/run
make deps run

Relate-to: meta-oniro-blueprints-cats#1 Relate-to: pcoval/dialog-lvgl#4 Forwarded: https://gitlab.eclipse.org/eclipse/oniro-blueprints/context-aware-touch-screen/context-aware-touch-screen/pulls?q=author%3Arzr Signed-off-by: Philippe Coval philippe.coval.ext@huawei.com